大家對(duì)英語有一定的了解,但是在考試的時(shí)候?qū)τ邢薜臅r(shí)間內(nèi)不一定能搞懂是什么意思的句子應(yīng)該也有的吧。下面小編就為大家介紹一些平時(shí)考試可以用上的句子和詞匯吧。
我總是在想,好的談話應(yīng)當(dāng)是由雙方共同分享組成的。根據(jù)環(huán)境,有時(shí)可能是40-60,有時(shí)可能是60-40,但是總的來說,雙方應(yīng)該有平等的機(jī)遇來分享和參與談話。也就是說你應(yīng)該足夠敏感,如果你已經(jīng)說了一會(huì)兒了,應(yīng)該能夠?qū)?duì)方提出問題。
It also means that you should take the initiative to share more about yourself if the other party has been sharing for the most part. Just because the person doesn’t ask doesn’t mean you can’t share; sometimes people don’t pose questions because it is not in their natural self to do so.
這也意味著如果大部分的內(nèi)容是由對(duì)方分享的,那你應(yīng)該主動(dòng)分享自己的想法。別人不問不代表這你不能分享;有時(shí)人們不問問題是因?yàn)樗麄兲焐辉高@樣做。
詢問有意義的問題
Questions elicit answers. The kind of questions you ask will steer the direction of the conversation. To have a meaningful conversation with the other person, ask meaningful questions. Choose questions like, “What drives you in life?”, “What are your goals for the next year?” and “What inspired you to make this change?” over “What did you do yesterday?” and “What are you going to do later?”.
問題會(huì)引出答案。你問的問題代表著談話的方向。要想和他人有有意義的談話,就得問有意義的問題。可以選擇這樣的問題,如“在生活中什么事情激勵(lì)著你前行?”,”你明年的目標(biāo)是什么?”以及“什么讓你做出這樣的改變?”,而不是問“昨天你做了什么?”、“一會(huì)兒你要做什么?”
Some people may not be ready to take on conscious questions, and that’s fine. Start off with the simple, trivial, everyday questions as you build a rapport. Then, get to know the person better through deeper, more revealing questions—when you think the person is ready to share.
有些人可能不想回答意識(shí)層面的問題,沒關(guān)系。從簡(jiǎn)單、瑣碎的、日常的問題開始,逐步建立關(guān)系。然后,通過進(jìn)一步、更加揭露性的問題來更好地了解對(duì)方——當(dāng)你認(rèn)為對(duì)方已經(jīng)愿意分享時(shí)
給予和接受
Sometimes people say pretty weird stuff during conversations. For example, a critical comment here and there, a distasteful remark, and a bad joke. Don’t judge them for those comments; treat these blurts as Freudian slips. Usually I just laugh or shrug it off; it makes for funny conversation banter.
有時(shí)人們?cè)谡勗挄r(shí)會(huì)說一些很奇怪的內(nèi)容。例如,到處都有批評(píng)的評(píng)論、令人反感的話、糟糕的笑話。不要因?yàn)樗麄兊哪切┰u(píng)論而對(duì)他們加以評(píng)判;把這些脫口而出的話看成是弗洛伊德口誤。通常情況下我只是笑笑或聳聳肩;它也使得談話輕松有趣。
以上這些就是小編為大家?guī)淼囊恍┛梢詭椭蠹以诳荚嚨臅r(shí)候可以應(yīng)用的上的一些詞語句子煙臺(tái)零基礎(chǔ)英語培訓(xùn)機(jī)構(gòu)哪個(gè)比較好。大家就應(yīng)該去慢慢了解。